How to Choose the Right Wedding DJ: Questions to Ask + Things to Consider
In honor of National DJ Month
A great DJ can completely change the energy of your wedding. They’re responsible for more than just playing music—they’re setting the tone for the entire evening. From your first dance to the last song of the night, the right DJ will keep your guests engaged, the schedule on track, and the dance floor full.
Here are a few key things to keep in mind—and questions to ask—when choosing your DJ:
Plan with the Dance Floor in Mind
One of the most common questions couples ask is, “What do you recommend for our first dance?” While the answer depends on your style, an experienced DJ will guide you toward a choice that feels personal and transitions well into the rest of the evening.
If your goal is to get people dancing, consider saving slower, emotional tracks for later in the night. Early on, focus on songs with energy that appeal to a broad audience.
Think about your guest list—what kind of music will resonate across generations? Look for familiar, upbeat songs that everyone knows, like:
“September” – Earth, Wind & Fire
“Celebration” – Kool & The Gang
“Can’t Stop the Feeling” – Justin Timberlake
A skilled DJ will know how to mix in the classics while reading the room and adapting in real time.
What to Ask Your DJ Before You Book
Make sure your DJ is the right fit by asking questions like:
How do you handle requests from guests?
Can we share a “do not play” list with you?
What’s your approach to different parts of the night—cocktail hour vs. dance floor?
How do you handle equipment failure or emergency situations?
Will you help guide us through timeline moments (toasts, grand entrance, special dances)?
Add Personality to the Reception
Looking for ways to make your reception more interactive? Your DJ can help facilitate creative ideas like:
A choreographed grand entrance
A family dance or mother-of-the-bride dance
A planned flash mob (yes, really)
A twist on the glass clink tradition—like “sing a song with the word ‘love’” or “make a mini putt to get us to kiss”
These small moments can make a big impression and help your wedding feel more like you.
Final Thoughts
Your DJ should be more than someone who plays music—they should be a partner in making your wedding flow. With the right planning and the right professional, your reception will feel effortless and memorable for you and your guests.
